Hetro-Sexual Relationship

We had the psychosexual integration session given by respected father Sanjay. It started by 8.30 am and concluded by 10.20 am. We were of 51 students. It’s really useful for us and very helpful for us to understand what is exclusive relationship and inclusive relationship at what age we get love and attraction on opposite gender with the realistic examples. The 14 years boy he can’t able to see a girl normally someone kind of attraction he had. He read a bible he comes to know that it was a sin and he was in thinking that I’m I doing sin. We discuss about it with our classmates what suggestion that we can give to him. We came to know that through this session that it all was natural at this age. Attraction will definitely comes at this age but we should be aware of those things. If it’s not comes only we may have some problem but it’s totally normal. Nowadays children at the age 10, 9 and at the of 8 they are saying that they are in love the 6 the standard girl searching about sex in Google, who told them at this small age. It’s not a fun thing we should know how they are influenced. The media plays a vital role to influence the children. Watching movies videos on Integra makes a bad impact on the children. They don’t know the difference between love and attraction. They unconsciously believe things shown in the social media. Many children are affected. Attraction comes at all ages there’s no end for that. Even a 70 years old men or women get attraction. In our life span we get attraction in 83 lakh people but that’s not love. Crush is also not love. Crush means you just like a person. It not last for long time. The love map means the expectations of our partner that we have created by ourselves. We search for a people who set for your character it basically some similarities. We get attraction of people who take care like our father or mother or brother. We have the curiosity to know about the opposite gender. There are 3 stages in love. The first one is romantic stage. It’s not love. The second stage is hatred stage. In this stage the people who are in relationship comes to know the positive and negative side of the person. But in the first stage we only know the person’s positive side so we may attraction on that person but when we know the both side many break ups are all happen. This is also not a love. The last stage is call attachment. In this stage can be defined as the real love we accept the person who they are actually. Accept their flaws and all. People may have wounds in childhood healing their wounds each other in this teen age it’s just an infatuation. We think that it was love. Amygdala is responsible for our emotions. We may not aware of the realistic things. Possessive Love is not a love. We try to hold that person. But it’s not correct. We only love a person when we stand by our own self. Finally we aware of love and attraction.

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